Tag: real life strategies


  • The Dog Walking Bum Bag That Changed My Life and Saved My Pockets

    A love letter to hands-free dog parenting, sensory-friendly storage, and never holding a warm poo bag again. There are moments in life where you find something so weirdly perfect for your needs that it feels like fate — or at least a well-timed Amazon recommendation. For me, that moment was buying this:TUDEQU Dog Walking Bum…

  • How to Make a Fitness Challenge Actually Work for You (When You Have AuDHD)

    Because typical fitness advice doesn’t account for boredom, sensory hell, or executive dysfunction. I used to love the idea of fitness challenges. That first week where everything is shiny and new? Sign me up. Then week two rolls in and suddenly I’m resenting the thing I was obsessed with 5 minutes ago. If you have…

  • AuDHD Shutdowns vs Meltdowns

    What They Feel Like and Why It Matters Why we need to talk about this Shutdowns and meltdowns are common in AuDHD (autism + ADHD), but they’re often misunderstood, mislabelled, or missed entirely. These aren’t tantrums or dramatic outbursts. They’re nervous system responses. And understanding them changes everything. What’s actually happening: the nervous system side…

  • Things I’ve Stopped Forcing Myself to Do (And Life Got Better)

    Permission to stop pretending you’re someone you’re not. There’s a long list of things I thought I should be doing, because “normal” people do them, because influencers swear by them, or because some part of me thought they’d make me a better human. Spoiler: they didn’t. Here’s what I’ve stopped forcing – and how that’s…

  • You’re Not Lazy, You’re Overloaded

    I used to call myself lazy every single day. I’d look around at the half-done laundry piles, the dishwasher I stacked but never emptied, the form I’ve been meaning to fill out for two weeks but keep forgetting until midnight – and I’d think, Why can’t I just get on with things like everyone else?…